One-on-One Coaching

As coach and client, we connect on a deep level and create a felt experience of what you really want from your life, and how to go about getting it. We may explore from many different angles - practicing skills like asking for what you want, reclaiming your full self-expression, making consent sexy, and emotional self-regulation, as well as breath, movement, and education. Exploring your desires in a safe container starts to dismantle harmful societal messages and build a new framework of self-confidence, self-love, and self-acceptance. This helps you tune in to who you are and how you want to move through the world and all your relationships.

Couples (or more) Coaching

Relationship skills can be learned, and we learn best by DOING! Explore new levels of intimacy, love, and pleasure together. Practice repair after rupture. Communicate about boundaries, needs, and desires.

After we meet individually for a one-on-one session with each partner, we meet all together. Individual sessions for each partner may also continue as needed.

*Polyamorous configurations of 3 or more are welcome, with the understanding that these require more complex attention and special scheduling considerations.

Getting started is simple. Reach out through my contact form, text, email, or phone.

I offer 15-minute free consultations to see if we feel like a good fit.

As a Somatica-trained sex and relationship coach, I use experiential methods. This means we don’t just talk about things, you get to practice skills and build self-knowledge and confidence. 

Unlike a therapist, I can bring the fullness of my being into the session so that we can interact in ways that you can bring into your own life. 

We can talk openly about any and all sexual topics. This is a shame-free zone where you can share unabashedly and ask questions you might not feel comfortable sharing with a therapist. 

I do not have an agenda for what you do in your life. I am radically accepting and here to support you in your journey.

I will help you uncover your desires and become able to express them, and have vulnerable conversations with love and kindness.

My coaching uses a practical, reality-based approach. You will walk away with practical tools for self-soothing and self-knowledge, partner connections, communication, and understanding what your needs and desires are and how to get them met. Every session is customized to your needs in the moment.

We explore a range of conversations and activities that are fun and interactive, and lead to deep insights or lasting shifts in how you see yourself and how you interact with the world.

Clients feel accepted for who they really are, and in turn develop self-acceptance and confidence. They get to know their desires and learn how to get them met. 

Shame is released, self love grows, and societal programming becomes less oppressive as clients start to see their options and make choices based on their true needs, boundaries, and desires. 

Couples learn to be present and attuned with each other, and to communicate in new ways that deepen intimacy and vulnerability, promote secure attachment, and respect individuality and boundaries.

The clients and the practitioner remain fully clothed during sessions, we don’t touch beneath clothing, and we don’t kiss on the mouth. 

Touch is only for the purpose of furthering the client’s coaching goals. Whenever proposing a touching exercise with a client, I will make sure I have verbal consent from the client before proceeding to touch them.

Meetings with clients only happen during paid session times – I will not meet with my clients outside of paid sessions.

The purpose of these boundaries is to be able to explore feelings of turn on and excitement in a safe container, and then use what you learn about yourself to go find what you are looking for out in the world.

EVENTS

Speed Dating for Sappics, Gay Men, Pansexuals, Kinky Folks and more.

Spicy Parties where you can meet people, practice boundaries and consent, and get a little wild.

Sexuality Salon

A place to come together and talk about sex! Facilitated, with fun connection activities, and lots of time for both group talks and individual connections.

JUICY WORKSHOPS

Body Image and Body Love 

Exploring your Gender and Sexuality

Sex Ed for Grownups

and more…

Experiential activities give you an opportunity to get out of your head and into your body, to have fun, and to make new connections. Learn and grow with like-minded people!

Unfortunately, coaching is not covered by insurance.

I offer various package discounts for multiple sessions and a sliding scale model, limited slots available.